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The Emotional Code:
A Six Week Journey to Reclaiming your Marriage

You feel it, don’t you? That unspoken tension between you and him – the emotional gap that keeps widening. The longing for closeness that seems impossible to reach.

You’ve tried everything:reading articles, books, going to shalom bayis classes, but none of it really worked. The advice felt too broad, or worse—like it was written for someone else’s marriage, not yours.

What Makes this Course Different?

It’s Experiential, Not Just Theoretical: You won’t just learn “what to do” – you’ll experience it firsthand, using techniques like NLP, guided visualizations and somatic practices to create deep, lasting shifts.
It’s Transformative: You’ll move beyond surface-level advice and step into a process of self-discovery and empowerment that will redefine your role in your marriage.
It’s Designed for Real Results: No fluff, no vague suggestions – just practical, actionable tools to help you create the connection you’ve been longing for.

Here's What You'll Get Over A Six Week Period

Module 1: Step Into Your Role as the Emotional Leader of Your Marriage

Do you feel like the spark has faded and the emotional bond with your husband is slipping away? This module is your invitation to reclaim your power as the emotional leader of your relationship. You’ll learn how to stop waiting for your husband to change and instead step into your natural role as the visionary and guide your marriage needs. Discover how to lead with clarity and confidence, creating the emotional atmosphere where connection can thrive. The change starts with you—and in this module, you’ll learn exactly how to make it happen.

Module 2: Rediscover Yourself to Transform Your Marriage

Do you ever feel like you’ve lost yourself somewhere along the way—like your needs, desires, and dreams have taken a backseat in your marriage? In this module, you’ll embark on a journey of self-reclamation. By reconnecting with your authentic self, you’ll break free from patterns of self-sacrifice, resentment, and frustration. Learn how to deeply understand your own emotions and needs, so you can communicate them without guilt or fear. You’ll walk away knowing how to show up as the vibrant, fulfilled woman your marriage needs—and reignite the spark with your husband in the process.

Module 3: Emotional Regulation—Your Personal Time Machine

Have you ever felt like a simple disagreement suddenly pulls you back into old, unhelpful patterns—like you’re regressing to an earlier stage in life, and reliving emotions from the past? In this module, you’ll discover how emotional regulation can become your personal time machine, helping catapult you back into the present when you get overwhelmed by past pain or fear. You’ll learn powerful techniques to shift from reactive, unresourceful states to calm, confident responses that draw on the wisdom and strength of who you are now. This is your key to breaking free from old cycles and creating the emotional safety your marriage needs to thrive.

Module 4: Release the Death Grip on Your Needs— and Master the Art of Inspired Asking

Have you ever felt like your husband just doesn’t meet your needs the way you want him to? This module transforms the way you approach your desires, teaching you to release the pressure of control and instead ask with openness and trust. You’ll learn the art of inspired asking—inviting your husband to respond with authenticity and love, rather than feeling pressured or manipulated. By mastering this skill, you’ll create a marriage built on freedom, respect, and genuine connection.

Module 5: Embrace Conflict as the Gateway to Deeper Connection

Do you find yourself avoiding disagreements or sacrificing your own needs to “keep the peace”? Over time, avoiding conflict can drain the passion and vitality from your relationship. In this module, you’ll learn how to lean into tension with confidence, turning moments of disagreement into opportunities for growth and collaboration. Discover how to honor both your needs and your husband’s, creating solutions that nurture both of you. By embracing conflict as a tool for deeper intimacy, you’ll co-create a relationship that feels balanced, fulfilling, and truly alive.

Module 6: Deepening the Connection—Tools for Lasting Growth

Transformation doesn’t stop—it deepens. In this final module, you’ll unlock powerful tools to keep your relationship evolving over time into something even more joyful, deep and connected. You’ll learn how to: take turns holding space for each other and help each other heal past wounds; get curious instead of furious and reframe how you interpret your husband’s actions; create trust and deep intimacy by speaking the “microscopic truth;” speak each other’s love languages to ensure you each feel loved by the other; and gradully deepen your capacity to live in a continuous state of good feeling (cause if you don’t have that capacity, it doesn’t matter how much good comes your way…you’re simply not a keli).