The Spark Doesn't Have to Stay Gone.
Discover what YOU can do to bring warmth, closeness, and connection back into your home, even if he's not really, well...
"into it."
Yes! Send me the secret sauce now:)
This is not another list of tips and to do's. It's a tranformational experience designed for YOU.
It's Experiential
It's Profound
It Gets Results
And not theoretical. You won’t just learn “what to do” – you’ll experience it firsthand, using techniques like NLP, somatic practices, and visualizations to create deep, lasting shifts.
You’ll move beyond surface-level advice and step into a process of self-discovery and empowerment that will redefine your role in your marriage.
It’s designed for real results: no fluff, no vague suggestions – just practical, actionable tools to help you create the connection you’ve been longing for.
Get the Free Guide Now>>>
WHAT YOU'LL DO AS YOU WORK THROUGH
THE POWER SHIFT PROCESS
➤ Step out of the cycle of helplessness and breathe in the sense of how much power you have
➤ Understand what your contribution is to the unsatisfying dynamic
➤ Get clear on the belief, need or desire funding your suboptimal moves
➤Reconnect with your own energy and emotional leadership
➤ Visualize and rehearse new patterns until they feel natural
➤ Assert your own needs from a place of calm, clarity, and care
➤Shift the relationship dynamic by changing a step in your dance
➤ Become the steady, rooted version of you that your marriage (and you) need
✦ You know, deep down, that your relationship has potential—but you’re tired of abandoning yourself to keep things “okay.”
✦ You are no longer willing to outsource your peace, power, or happiness to someone else’s behavior.
✦ You feel the ache of disconnection—and sense that the path back to closeness begins inside you.
✦ You want to lead with love—not people-pleasing or perfectionism, but real, embodied love rooted in truth.
✦ You are ready to become the version of yourself your relationship has been waiting for—not by changing who you are, but by becoming more of who you truly are.
✦ You are willing to view conflict not as a sign of failure—but an invitation to deepen emotional intimacy and courageously grow.
✦ You are done playing small. You are ready to live, love, and lead from your highest self—even if it starts with a a single brave step.
✦ You’re looking for quick fixes, scripts, or ways to change him without doing any internal work.
✦ You want to prove you’re “right” rather than explore what’s possible.
✦ You’re committed to blame—and not yet ready to take radical responsibility for your part in the dynamic.
✦ You’re hoping for tips to control, manipulate, or outsmart your partner.
✦ You’re not open to self-reflection, growth, or softening—only to strategies that protect you from vulnerability.
Here's what women say...
Thanks so much, Brocha. Over the course of this morning, I was able to use the feeling technique twice already, and it was really powerful.
The first was when I was feeling low about myself… I got in touch with a little voice that used to call me phony when I was younger. I was able to feel that and cry it out using the self-soothing techniques. I moved through these feelings and then got in touch with my inner joy and knowledge of how proud Hashem is of me…I was able to dance in a shower of love and that white sparkling light…it was amazing and powerful.
The next time was when I read something and felt a very uncomfortable feeling in my stomach. So I was able to be with it. And again this allowed me to come back and appreciate the love…
It really is such a gift what you gave me, and I hope to continue growing more and more with you…
Tamar G., Har Nof
I came in with a lack of self-confidence, and slowly I began to feel that I was standing on my own two feet—trying and choosing new things I never would have dared to do before. My priorities are also shifting, and things I had wanted to emphasize are becoming achievable, thank G-d. You are a listening ear and gently guide the process. I thank you and HaKadosh Baruch Hu that we met.
Thank you,
Judy
It’s been just nine sessions now, but I’ve basically achieved what I wanted.
I had two goals. One was to improve my marriage by learning how to create safety within myself even when things got chaotic with my husband (as they often do when he goes through difficult periods) and not feel a compulsive need to change him at these times. I can now hold on to myself way, way better, and give him more space to be him. This seems to have a very soothing effect on the dynamic between us.
My other goal was to move past my inner barrier to opening up emotionally to my husband (and children too), and to really be able to share my own experience and be with him in his experience from an emotionally available place. When we began working, I experienced this as a difficulty with an intensity of about 9 out of 10. Now, it seems to flow.
Dassy C., Neveh Yaakov
I have gained tremendously from Brocha’s course.Her lectures are engaging, providing step by step guidance on how to improve the quality of your life. She provides practical tools and techniques to improve your relationship with yourself and with others.I have implemented the techniques that she has shared in this course in my life and I have seen a positive difference. I highly recommend her course.
Miriam B., Har Nof
Get the Free Guide Now>>>
Meet Brocha
Hi, I’m Brocha Speyer. Wife and mother and writer and coach. Born in Los Angeles, but living in Yerushalayim since I was ten (that’s a long time b”ah).
And here’s a zany confession: the last thing I thought I’d become was a marital relationship coach. It just wasn’t something that I’d ever even considered.
When I began training as an NLP coach, my original plan was to coach women to build thriving passion-businesses so they could support their families doing what they loved. That was my idea of adventure. But, then, after having been a coach for a while (who focused mostly on clients’ internal barriers to goal achievement) and always looking to level up my skills, I heard that a coach I admired for her striking finesse was starting a coaches’ training program. And I knew I had to join. The fact that her training was going to focus on relationships? Well, who really cared? I would steal her coaching toolkit, copy-past her artistry, and apply it all towards the varient of coaching that I was personally passionate about. The relationship aspect? Eh. It wouldn’t make a difference either way.
But as I progressed through the long months of relationship training, weird things started to happen. My husband and I started feeling closer. And closer. Suddenly, after over 15 years of marriage, no amount of time together seemed like enough. Our bond became deeper than ever. Now we were simply enamored with one another. I discovered that the level of joy I was experiencing around my relationship at that point was uniquely exhilarating and exquisite. Possibly more fulfilling than anything I’d experienced before. Uh…did I say that the notion of relationship coaching hadn’t really excited me? Well now it did. And I wanted to get out there and let all women know just how much power they had buried between their ears.
So Hear O Women: if your relationship is good, you can make it way better. And if it’s sagging or withering, you can infuse it with new life. Totally singlehandedly.
Because a woman is the natural leader in her relationships (across all cultures, by the way. And yes, I am totally generalizing because there are some males out there who embody more female energy than some females:).
And also because a relationship is like a dance. If you change just one dance step, the other person can’t just keep on moving to the same old rhythm.
So whether it’s about your relationship with your husband, your teen, your toddler, your mother in law…or, well, just about anyone else…
Just change one pattern. One thought. One feeling. One belief.
That’s literally all it takes to start shifting the dynamic.
Feel free to email me with any questions: Brocha@harmonybeginswithin.com